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Lists with This Book. Feb 23, Gregg Bell rated it it was amazing. This book has one of the most misleading and worst titles, and it is one of the best books ever written in the field of psychology.
There are many theories as to how this misnomer occurred, but my favorite is that Erik The Red, a hearty Viking undoubtedly wi This book has one of the most misleading and worst titles, and it is one of the best books ever written in the field of psychology. There are many theories as to how this misnomer occurred, but my favorite is that Erik The Red, a hearty Viking undoubtedly with a good sense of humor wanted to attract settlers to his colony and so named it something appealing.
Well, I don’t know why Eric Berne, the famous psychologist and best-selling author, named this book “What Do You Say After You Say Hello,” but for all practical purposes he named it the book-ish equivalent of Iceland when it is indeed Greenland.
The title sound like a dating guide. Are you interested in spirituality? You’re not going to find it here. Do you want a quick fix for your problems? If you know of any, please email me. In this book, what you get is extraordinarily clear-headed thinking about how we think or don’t.
The book is based on the psychological school of Transactional Analysis the notion that all people have three distinct parts to their personality–despite their age–Parent, Adult, and Child, and that transactions between people are best served by communicating on the same level, Parent to Parent, Adult to Adult, and Child to Child. A brief example would be if somebody was goofing around coming from the Child part of their personality and you shot them down from the Parent part of your personalitysaying something like, ‘You’re so immature!
But even more important than mixed transactions, Berne goes into great depth on how almost always our lives follow “scripts” ways dupaa thinking about our lives ingrained in us at an early age from our parents and other significant figures and that these scripts are often counter-productive and even at times tragic. It’s almost creepy thinking that what you absorbed from your parents and it being long forgotten into adulthood could be determining your current life, but Berne provides convincing proof–and erric importantly a way ddupa.
Sometimes they are put in cages and treated like rats, manipulated and sacrificed at the will of their masters. But many times the cage has an open door, and a man has only to walk out if he wishes.
If he does not, it is usually his script which keeps him there. That is familiar and reassuring, and after looking out at the great world of freedom with all its joys and dangers, he turns back to the cage with its buttons and levers, knowing that if he keeps busy pushing them, and pushes the right one at the right time, he will be assured of dypa, drink, and an occasional thrill.
But always, such a caged person hopes or fears that some force greater than himself, the Great Experimenter or the Great Computer, will change or end it all.
And the best chance Berne points out that often counseling is needed in some cases of obtaining that awareness is functioning mostly from our Adult.
Not exclusively of course. There are benefits to all three parts of our personality and appropriate times for their expression.
What Do You Say After You Say Hello? by Eric Berne
It’s just when for example a grown man or woman is consistently acting, say, from their Child, that life is unnecessarily counterproductive. So it sounds like common sense, right? No need to read the book.
Most psychology books are pretty good or at least have a few good thoughts and concepts you can glean from them. This book is great. This book and the Transactional Analysis it expounds on could improve your life immensely. Me personally I’m getting older 57 and I’m single so the following passage really applies to me and to women too: There are thousands of older men living in small rooms in every large city, each of them wishing there was someone to cook for him, talk to him, and listen to him.
At the same time, there are thousands of older women living under the same circumstances, wishing they had someone to cook for, talk to, and listen to. Even if the twain do happen to meet, they rarely take advantage of it, each preferring to remain in his or her familiar drab surroundings hunched over a glass or a TV set, or sitting with folded hands, waiting for a riskless, sinless death. Those were mother’s directives when they were little, and these are the directives they are following seventy or eighty years later.
They never took chances before, beyond a small bet at the racetrack or the stadium, so why should they jeopardize everything now? The script has vanished by its own fulfillment, but the old slogan lingers on, and when death comes they will greet him gladly. And on the front of the tombstone whey will carve: But everybody is already raised in a bottle according to specifications laid down by the state and his parents, and there he is script-programed.
Script-programing is easier to shake off than genetic programing, but few people exercise the privilege.
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For the ones who do, there can be a more inspiring tombstone. Nearly all pious epitaphs, translated into Martian script based thinkingcome out ‘Raised in a bottle, and stayed there, too.
Only here and there is a surprise: Dec 09, Bernd rated it liked it. A somewhat misleading title as the book won’t give any helpful tips to change a conversation for the better. The underlying theory however is interesting: Right from the start we have an unconscious belief of life and ourselves which controls every bit of our life and thus also influences the way we talk to other people.
The typical “examples” however could be shortened. Berne’s book “Games people play” is far better in analyzing the way people talk with each other.
Feb 14, Anthony Buckley rated it it was amazing Shelves: Duppa Berne’s best book, I feel. Berne became the darling of social workers and pop-psychologists, and I suspect was correspondingly disliked by real psychologists.
Nevertheless, I have a lot of time for him.
In particular, his belief that human beings cf within them a Parent, Child and Adult, and use these to build their relations with others and their understanding of themselves is not at all daft. I suspect eupa is disliked because he is readable! This is a great sin in some circles. Apr 22, Sam Patterson rated it really liked it.
This is basically a psychology textbook telling you why people do what they do and what in their lives made them decide they had to make the choices they made. Extremely enlightening and interesting, if not a little outdated.
There are also some very nice bedtime stories in this book.
Jan 31, James added it. It is funny to consider that many of us live our lives such that they may resemble classic fairytales -though not necessarily with happy endings. This, while it isn’t the point of the book, was a fun theme that ran through it.
Jul 23, Jim Young rated it it was amazing.
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The most brilliant book ever written. I’ve read it so many times. Not a bad achievement if you ask me. Dec 01, Dr.
Kat added it Shelves: I liked the descriptions of transactional analysis. Author did good job of using characters from well known stories i. His approach in writing seems suggestive rather than conclusive, which is appropriate.
Also he uses a martian perspective to explain an objective view of stories to explain his approach of critiquing situations and looking deeper to show how scripts intertwine for a group. Really changes everything I think about myself and where I’m headed. Will make you wonder why certain interactions go the ways they do. It has the potential to look deeply into who you are, identify what mistakes you make and why you make yourself do them. Book can be scary, must be necessary. Berne goes into interesting territories, but is able to pull you out for a breather with a 70’s era non-pc zinger from time to time.
Apr 12, Jyotika Varmani rated it liked it Recommends it for: I read Games People Play erid this, and am a fan of it. Perhaps its not fair to make comparisons, but it is inevitable. That book was far more well organized, and made for a much better read than this one. Berne introduces us to TA once again in the book, and his explanation erid indeed very engaging and sensible. But somewhere down the line, the classification of every action into scripts gets as regressive as the boiling down of every act to the psychosexual stages.
Sphi the author ver W-ell. Though the author very defensively reminds us that he is all for free will and individual action, the book puts a contrary point of view across, especially with the checklist presented for getting a fair idea of a person’s script. Nonetheless, the book gives valuable information on how our early experiences pretty much shape up how we respond to different situations when we grow up.
Berne’s satirical yet very truthful digs at people’s justification for their actions are interesting.